Dad (Keith) has always promoted light, efficient packing - large items first, fill each box so it can close, no loose items. Mom has always wanted to be prepared for the myriad of situations that may occur - aloe vera lotion for sunburns that may happen (they did), extra plastic cups, an extra pair of socks. The compromises Mom and Dad made in every day life for each other are expressions of a deep love rooted in eternal covenants.
Most of these sacrifices of personal interest, motives, and schedules went unnoticed by me, but one remains clear. Taking an umbrella says I love you. As Dad prepared to take Kara Jenny and I (David) on a full day bike trip we packed the needed items: patch kit, lunches, water bottles, and helmets. Ever watchful, Mom had checked the weather the night before; it was most likely a 20% chance of rain or some other low number. Mom promptly suggested that we all take umbrellas on the mountain biking trip. It would horrible to bike sopping wet, and Mom would rather that we not catch colds.
Although Dad may have protested a bit, there were 3-4 umbrellas in the car as we went biking.
Seeking our greatest comfort and joy is always Mom's aim; Dad will always support Mom even if the idea of mountain biking while holding an umbrella is silly.
It was a small gesture from Dad and Mom that said, "I love you and I'm happy todo this little thing to build that love a little more."
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Ada Sue Wilson,
David Keith Wilson,
David Lawrence Wilson,
Jennifer Kanoelani Wilson,
Kara Anne Wilson,
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An Umbrella Means Love.
This is the Israel Ivins home at 187 North 100 West, directly across the street from Brigham Young's winter home. Israel Ivins, his wives Anna Lowrie and Julia Hill (our great-great-great grandmother) and children entered the valley in 1861 (reportedly the second or third wagon to arrive). He got straight to work surveying the valley and laying out land lots. A short time later, lots were assigned to families by a drawing and Israel eventually built this home on his lot.
The home was most recently remodled to accommodate an attorney's office. During the remodle, they found an abnormal panel in an upstairs bedroom. They removed the plastering and discovered a small door into a windowless attic space that still held a single bed and a small desk with two books on it (the Book of Mormon and the complete works of Shakespeare). The room was used as a place of hiding for Israel from federal agents looking for men with plural wives. This is probably one of the reasons he was never imprisoned for practicing polygamy.
I took a few other pictures of the interior of the home, but it pretty much looks like an office now.
Last Decemeber, the Petersons and the David Wilson family met in St George for a few days and I (Kara) wondered if there were any family history sites we could visit while we were there. I was sure there must be something, but I didn't know how to find it.
Turns out there's a lot of our history remaining in St George! At the Bentley Reunion we visited the:
- Isreal Ivins Home
- Richard Bentley Home
- Joseph C. Bentley Home
- Gravesites of Israel and Julia Hill Ivins and Richard and Elizabeth Price Bentley
- First encampment memorial with a statue of Israel Ivins
- Pine Valley Chapel/school house where Margaret McKean Ivins taught school
- Telegraph office where Joseph C. Bentley worked
In the next few weeks, (before I forget) I will share a little about each of these sites and information about getting there.
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Letticia Evelyn Lawrence Nicholls,
Norman Wilson,
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Choosing a Mother-In-Law
Grandma Wilson has done a great
job collecting stories and sending them out to the family from time to time. I’m
ashamed to admit that there are many I haven’t read until now. Here’s a funny one
from my Grandpa Wilson about my Great Grandma Nicholls.
Norm Wilson
BYU Essay
1965
Choosing a Mother-In-Law
During my dating days, I always evaluated the girl’s mother
in an effort to forecast the type of wife and mother her daughter would become.
The woman who is now my mother-in-law was no exception.
At first I liked her because, somehow, she made me feel so
natural and relaxed. She laughed at my jokes and invited me to dinner so often
that I began to feel guilty. Be warned, however, that these signs make it difficult
to appraise a future mother in law. One can never be sure which of three things
support the amiable front.
- First, it could be part of the conventional conspiracy to aid the daughter in getting a husband.
- Second, it could be prompted by the foreknowledge that if she doesn't act the part of the gracious mother, that she will later be in for a tirade from her daughter.
- Third, there is the possibility that she is naturally a very likable person.
With these considerations fogging out any clear evaluation,
how could I be expected to form an accurate opinion? I continued to observe. I
watched for tell-tale signs under all conditions. I noted that she was a good
housekeeper, plain but clean. Mealtime was the same, plain, good food, well
prepared and good humoredly served. I even watched for signs of flightiness. I thought
that an evidence of stability and industry would surely show me her true nature,
but I found her totally industrious.
She appeared to be a good citizen and neighbor and was
definitely family oriented, with six children. All of these qualities pointed
toward a fundamentally good person, one I should be able to unreservedly like.
It is strange however, how you can never be sure. Even the most promising mother
may turn in a meddlesome witch.
Unfortunately, I know of no absolute way to pre-test a
mother-in-law except to let her become one. In the course of time, I took the
calculated risk and married her daughter.
It is readily admitted that twelve years has changed my
original emotion somewhat. As my mother-in-law I don’t like her anymore. I love
her! All of my original impressions have been verified. She has proven herself
above meddling and interfering, and she is an ideal grandmother. But I think I
love her most, because I daily see her honorable traits instilled and reflected
in her daughter.
Hello family and general blogosphere. I'm about to write the obligatory "Why I'm starting a blog" post. Here it goes.
My family means the world to me. I grew up in a terrific family, my extended family (grandparents, aunts/uncles, and cousins) on both sides is high caliber, and now I have a small family of my own that I love very deeply. When someone asks me "Tell me about your family," I answer with a discussion in one of these three areas. Even though my family may be comparatively large, I can compartmentalize it all pretty easily. It starts with my grandparents and branches out to include my parents, aunts, and uncles; then reaches myself, siblings, and cousins; and just now is reaching the newest generation of kiddos. I usually stop here because 1) I don't know who's in the next generation, and 2) I can't remember the names of family members before my grandparents. I think I'm justified in reason number 1. But number 2? Maybe I'm not trying hard enough.
In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (of which I'm a happy member), we stress the importance of family history work, i.e. identifying our ancestors so we can offer them saving ordinances, like baptism, by way of proxy in our temples. (More on temples here.) My family has done a stellar job of finding the names of many of these ancestors. Kudos to all! There is certainly more family out there. The search isn't over. But when I came to join, I found it very very difficult work. I didn't know where to start cause it all seemed like dead ends. It's like being late to an Easter egg hunt; most of the eggs are already in baskets and for all you know there are no eggs left to find.
My perspective on family history work changed two weeks ago. Another member of the ward mentioned that family history is not just about finding names, but also about getting to know who our family is. It's learning where we come from so we can better know who we are and form relationships with family that's already moved on. The people that went before were real people, just like us. They had good times and bad times, they lived and loved, and they don't want to be forgotten. We will be blessed by learning their stories, and I feel they will greatly appreciate our efforts.
So that's why I'm starting this blog. I want to learn who these people are, and have a place to store and share their stories with the rest of my family (at least with the relatively small part of my family, the living part.) I fully welcome contributions from all you other Wilsons/Garners. If you have ancestral stories, biographies, or pictures, please share the wealth. Let's turn some hearts (Malachi 4:6).
-Bryan W.
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